About Me

Monday, December 6, 2010

ITS MY LIFE.....ITS YOUR LIFE......ITS OUR LIFE......


I gain strength, courage, and confidence by every experience in which I really stop to look fear in the face..

I am able to say to myself..,
'I lived through this horror.. I can take the next thing that comes along'..

 I believe that it is better to conquer yourself than to win a thousand battles.

Then the victory is yours.. It cannot be taken from you, not by angels or by demons, heaven or hell.....To be yourself in a world that is constantly trying to make you something else is the greatest accomplishment..  I surround myself with the best people I can find, delegate authority, and don't interfere as long as the policy I have decided upon is being carried out.......
It's easy to have faith in yourself and have discipline when you're a winner or when you're number one.. 
What you got to have is faith and discipline when you're not a winner..  Should you find yourself in a chronically leaking boat, energy devoted to changing vessels is likely to be more productive than energy devoted to patching leaks..  Focusing your life solely on making a buck shows a certain poverty of ambition..  It asks too little of yourself.. 
Because it's only when you hitch your wagon to something larger than yourself that you realize your true potential..

Simply put, you believer that things or people make you unhappy, but this is not accurate.. You make yourself unhappy..
Expose yourself to

Sunday, December 5, 2010

HOW DO I MOTIVATE MYSELF...

How do you motivate yourself, is a very big question.. 
Someday, in the years to come, you will be wrestling with the great temptation, or trembling under the great sorrow of your life.. But the real struggle is here, now... Now it is being decided whether, in the day of your supreme sorrow or temptation, you shall miserably fail or gloriously conquer.. Character cannot be made except by steady, long continued process.. 
The more you struggle to live, the less you live.. Instead, surrender to what is real within you, for that alone is sure.. As stars high above earth, you are above everything distressing..
But you must awaken to it.. So....Wake up!

You have to believe that you are the one who creates your success, that you are the one who creates your mediocrity, and that you are the one creating your struggle around money and success.. 
I have come to believe that there are only two kinds of experiences in life..:
Those that stem from our higher self and those that have something to teach us.. We recognize the first as pure joy and the latter as struggle.. But they are both perfect.. Each time we confront some intense difficulty, we know there is something we haven't learned yet, and the universe is now giving us the opportunity to learn..
All your life you are told the things you cannot do.. All your life people around you will say, you're not good enough or strong enough or talented enough; they will say you're the wrong height or the wrong weight or the wrong type to play this or be this or achieve this.. THEY WILL TELL YOU NO, a thousand times no, until all the no's become meaningless.. All your life they will tell you no, quite firmly and very quickly..
AND YOU WILL TELL THEM YES..

Make no little plans; they have no magic to stir humans blood and probably

STOP RACISM

The first thing to understand in this discussion is that there is only one race—the human race. Caucasians, Africans, Asians, Indians, Arabs, and Jews are not different races. Rather, they are different ethnicities of the human race. All human beings have the same physical characteristics (with minor variations, of course). More importantly, all human beings are created in the image and likeness of God. God loved the world so much that He sent Jesus to lay down His life for us. The “world” obviously includes all ethnic groups.

God does not show partiality or favoritism, and neither should we. In the Old Testament, God divided humanity into two “racial” groups: Jews and Gentiles. God’s intent was for the Jews to be a kingdom of priests, ministering to the Gentile nations. Instead, for the most part, the Jews became proud of their status and despised the Gentiles. Jesus Christ put an end to this, destroying the dividing wall of hostility. All forms of racism, prejudice, and discrimination are affronts to the work of Christ on the cross.

Jesus commands us to love one another as He loves us. If God is impartial

Saturday, December 4, 2010

HUMAN LIFE

If life were a tapestry, what would we see.... ?
The answer lies before life could be and at death it still isn't done..
A pattern of threads never woven alone,
Each stand and colour our people in different faces,
Each knot an interaction in several cases..
They are the threads of childhood,
And youth patches for tears and love,
And slights not understood..
Motifs for relationships and trials withstood..
A large part of this tapestry is bondage to parent to spouse to child,
For the recognized pattern lies in obligation..
Walking in the street, you pass so many people..
If each carried a coloured strand,
What myriad patterns they would make..
For both stranger and friend could change a design already planned..

Friday, December 3, 2010

I wish we were free

The sun sets an eventful day
Blood and death pave the way..
Scenes of destruction, the stories tell,
The day when all of humanity fell..
Pain and suffering, fire and flames,
Just another one of those street games..
Killing people they never knew,
The real cause known to just a few..
What happiness can they hope to find,
Communal hatred, fear of the other..
Yet our country tells us that we are brothers,
What brotherhood.........?
What unity is this I see.........?
Where no one is safe, no one is free........

Thursday, December 2, 2010

Men Described........

There are men around, if you would care to see,
They are there in fathers, who smile while their daughters drop the d/o from their address,
They are there in husbands, who don't wince with hurt egos, while the wife pays the bill,
They are there in brothers, who are content holding the roll, while little sis flies the kite,
They are there in boyfriends, who, don't mind admitting, that they ride pillion, and she rides the bike,
They are those who have realised, big egos are passe and chivalry is not frivolous,
They are also those who know, women don't really hate them,
They just love to hate them...................................................

Love and Life.... Really Beautiful.... Experience it....

Life is the flower for which love is the honey..
Life without love is like a tree without blossoms or fruit..
Immature love says: 'I love you because I need you.' Mature love says 'I need you because I love you.'

Love can sometimes be magic.. But magic can sometimes...just be an illusion.. Love does not begin and end the way we seem to think it does... Love is a battle, love is a war; Love does not dominate; it cultivates.. Love is a canvas furnished by nature and embroidered by imagination.. Love is a game that two can play and both win.. Love is a gross exaggeration of the difference between one person and everybody else.. Love is an act of endless forgiveness, a tender look which becomes a habit.. Love is always bestowed as a gift - freely, willingly and without expectation..
We don't love to be loved; we love to love.. Love is all we have, the only way that each can help the other..

Love is like war: easy to begin but very hard to stop.
Love is the word used to label the sexual excitement of the young, the habituation of the middle-aged, and the mutual dependence of the old..  It takes off masks that we fear we cannot live without and know we cannot live within..
Once the realization is accepted that even between the closest human beings infinite distances continue, a wonderful living side by side can grow, if they succeed in loving the distance between them which makes it possible for each to see the other whole against the sky.. Sometimes it's a form of love just to talk to somebody that you have nothing in common with and still be fascinated by their presence..
It is difficult to know at what moment love begins; it is less difficult to know that it has begun..

It is sad not to love, but it is much sadder not to be able to love..
If you want to be with someone you love, aren't you already there?
Everyone reserves true and deepest love not for